The Only Way Through Is Out
About the memoir

“I could not put this book down. Suzette shows us the search for one’s authentic self has no expiration date and is worth whatever it takes. This book is a glorious tale of tenacious courage that any woman searching for her path in life will love.”

—Jennifer Louden, national bestselling author of Why Bother? Discover the Desire for What’s Next 

“An honest and insightful delve into coming out later in life, The Only Way Through Is Out is filled with tears, laughter, and, above all, hope.”

—Lara Lillibridge, author of Girlish: Growing Up in a Lesbian Home

Suzette Mullen had been raised to play it safe—and the result was a a solid marriage, two thriving adult sons, and an ocean-view vacation home. But when she finally confronted her deeply buried feelings for her female best friend, she was forced to choose between her safe and comfortable life and a terrifying leap into an unknown future.

Bittersweet and empowering, The Only Way Through Is Out is an inspiring call to action for every human who is longing to live authentically but is afraid of the cost, and a reminder that it’s never too late for a new beginning.

Forthcoming from the University of Wisconsin Press
February 13, 2024